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Chapter 5

Using Words Instead of Reaction

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Using Words Instead of Reaction


What’s happening?

He asks for a minute. The teacher supports him. He returns calmly.


Teacher Script: “Now he uses words instead of behaviour.” “1 need a minute’ is a powerful sentence.” “Notice the teacher doesn’t get angry. She listens. That makes it safe to reset.” “That’s real power — being able to stop and try again.”

Ask:

  • Why is asking for help powerful?
  • What other words could you use?
  • What would happen if he didn’t say anything?

Skill:

Help-seeking and communication